Narcissists are always looking for "help." How do you help someone that's doing nothing? Narcissists don't want help. They're lazy entitled posers that want to exploit others.
Make a habit of shutting down conversations that involve hating on other people. -Luis Garcia.
Don't take anything personally. Nothing other people do it because of you. It is because of themselves.
Anyone can find the dirt in someone. Be the one that finds the gold.
You never look good trying to make someone else look bad.